It's not just you.
One of the lovely ladies I work with commented today about how affected their husband is too, at their inability to have a child.
It's so true, and of course totally understandable.
For me, it was my partners desire to give me a child (he has 4 amazing children of himself) and the sadness he felt, while consoling me too.
And then there's my Mum. She has spoken of grandchildren all of my life, and as it seemed my brother was never really interested, it was definitely going to be me that filled that desire for her.
I know she has had her own sadness to overcome once the reality hit her, that it was never going to happen.
And yet, it's more than that.
Others too can be affected by our struggle, or confusion, or overwhelm, or sadness.
Because when you are living mostly within these emotions - everyone you come in to contact with, one way or another, will pick up that vibe from you.
Even when you think you've got it completely under control!
As living, breathing, balls of energy, walking around emitting that energy out into a world of millions of other living, breathing balls of energy, we can not help but transpose some of what we are on to those around us.
It may not be conscious, and it may not be desired, but it is definitely happening.
And the irony is, the more you try to stifle, ignore, or bully those emotions in to submission, the more they are going to come out screaming. Until you decide to work with them, heal them, set them free.
Then, the magic happens. The sun can come out. Clarity of mind prevails. The sound of laughter can be heard - coming from your throat. Purpose, fulfilment and peace have a space they can enter and thrive.
When we stifle, ignore, and shut down the pain, so we don't have to deal with it in the moment - which, let's face it, is all about the fear of the unknown - the fear that these emotions might take hold forever, if we let them show their face for too long (which you know form a previous post, can't happen) - Like a toddler inside of us, they come back SCREAMING for our attention. They turn in to 'bad' habits - smoking, drinking, gambling, watching too much TV, shopping, eating... Or like a virus they eat away at each and every area of your life - you relationships, your career, your self esteem, your self confidence, your self respect.
But it doesn't have to be this way.
When you take the time to understand the emotions you have been stifling. Recognise the signals of where they are unhelpfully coming back in your present moment and, and then actively dealing with them to release them and let go...
That's when the healing begins.
That's when peace can settle.
That's when happiness, purpose and fulfilment win out.
If you would like to speak with me, free of charge, about your circumstances. About how your emotions might be affecting those around you and therefore the beauty of your life, and the exact steps to move you past this and into the future you deserve, then schedule a call now.
Every lady I talk to loves these calls, and I've spoken to well over 250 ladies now, you are going to love this call.
You are worth it, and you deserve it.